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the simple-ness of a black man I did not expect…but shoulda…

I dont believe I’ve ever had a male tell me I can’t talk about sex with him because I am a female.
That in itself is a physical-sexual differentiation that makes no sense in the well educated minds, such as myself, that have read asked and watched sex in its natural form and performance form.

It is as if a penis is so severely dominant that one cannot comprehend the greatness of what it feels like to come, from one orphus, from a few simple actions where opposed to the vagina, where as about 1,000 or more nerve endings are located are pricked poked and licked on experience so much more. Boy I guess we are so inadequate compared to plain ole penile ejaculation- so said the DC bred young Black Male clearly in his young twenties surprised at the bluntness and questionable nature I offered.
Because an ignorant mind must be pricked and prodded- in turn I am the arguable angry black woman, the educated asshole with anger, the negative not the Inquisitive, Curious, Poking creature I assume to be.
No to the common simple-ton, I am an angry black woman with too many come backs that a male is slightly offended by and too irritated and embarrassed to come up with a rebuttal…except with a very passive head down response of “Shut the Fuck Up.”
I suppose it should’ve been expected. There is no other response than that. “Shut the fuck up.”
It throws you off, out of nowhere the phrase appears and one is offended because your questions, ideas, pokings and proddings are shut down by their uncomfort.
No because me prodding sir is worse than you claiming that Lesbian sex is better that Gaymen sex. It is too weird in fact…simple shit.
Is it worse that the woman next to him who barely knows him carries a torch for him with no structured response nor defense for the friends against him…No.
Simple shit for simple things.
I’m here to fucking poke and prod it to death.
Deal with it.

Is Nicki Minaj a modern day Black Feminist?

(No seriously, between her playing into the misogyny of the rap industry, her ineffective (but somehow deemable) tweets to encourage young girls to stay in school, not to mention her blatantly fake image (which includes implants wigs and veryvery light skin that seems a bit…unnatural), ridiculous lyrics but some that apparently appeal to the modern day feminist/black woman

Life of a Brown Person: watched Precious for the first time…

so, admittedly, the screenplay isn’t that great nor is the acting, the story line is really simple and music etcetc.

HOWEVER. as a movie that highlights what black woman face, in certain economic, educational, psychological circumstances I think it touches on things that Black Men do not acknowledge and those who know about “Black Struggle” from a commercialized standpoint do not see.

I always dislike how the Black Male Struggle is always something talked about, but the Black Female Struggle is ignored and shoved under the rug because “WE HAVE TO UPHOLD OUR BLACK MEN. ENCOURAGE THEM TO NOT BE INCARCERATED. TO MAKE IT TO COLLEGE.”

Though the movie is not as great-Monique had a moment when she goes, “He was makin love to me and touchin my daughter. I told him to stop but he told my fat ass to shutup so I shut my fat ass up and he touched her…I was mad that my man wanted my daughter not me.”

Sexual abuse is not commonly talked about…for what reason I don’t know but there should always be open forums about the treatment of women, and of course including us of color because our struggles seem to always be swept under the rug…

Weather Woman Fired After Defending Natural Hair And Black Kids Has No Regrets

Angelique Kidjo | Lisner Auditorium | The George Washington University

February 16, 2014 7:00pm

Angelique Kidjo is a Grammy award-winning vocalist deemed “Africa’s premier diva” by Time Magazine. Known for her dynamic and uplifting music, Kidjo’s internationally acclaimed repertoire crosses boundaries, genres and ethnicities, blending Western pop & African traditions.

This wonderful woman is performing in GWU this Sunday. Illoon and I are planning to go! We’ve featured some of her music on our tumblr. This is gone be da bestttt!

Life of a Brown Person: beauty is a damn fight.

  • my hands are tiny and bony,
  • but when I put on my chori and rings they look like beauty, they look like a part of me.
  • I’ve got super irritating acne, so sometimes in the morning/night I stand in the mirror and pop um or poke um hoping they disappear one day.
  • But when I wear some shit, I stand in the mirror feelin on my booty goin “damn I loookk goooodddd”

  • when my hair was fluffy and to my back I’d spend half an hour on it trying to make it to things to the point where my hands would cramp up and shake.
  • but then I shaved it, cut it, and now some days I can just put it up and it’ll look good.
  • sometimes I’ll see images of make-up infused models, or real chics in life with nice lookin make up
  • but the minor eyeliner, eyeshadow, lipstick and henna makes me feel just as equivalent…when I feel like it.

  • I love boobies and I fall into the fantasy of “the bigger the booby the mo the betta” because of these hypersexualized milf-like images
  • but I’ll jiggle mine around and stick um in a crop top and they’ll look nice.
  • I was called chicken legs, pole, twig as a kid/high schooler
  • I look at my calves now and love how goddamn muscular they are.

We’re human. We have our moments where these images, the people we see, the jealousy of beauty affect our own-but then we have to remind ourselves that…those images are based off of someone elses standards, basis of beauty qualifications n fucknots.

I have my moments…and then I don’t. It’s good to admit um.


She's racked up over 20 million views and 150,000 subscribers on YouTube

Life of a Brown Person: let’s talk about these Celie and Shug Avery moments…

Lady Day is known for having hooked up with both men and women, in a Nina Simone biography that I’m skimming through a relationship with a woman is also described, Frida Kahlo and should I even mention the ohso famous Miss Celie and Shug Avery relationship that Steven Speilberg didn’t make a huge deal, but was most def a thing in the book. 

But yet why is this something not discussed between us colored folk, we have women of color that are out of the closet, not to mention (for you Pop Culture lovers) Nicki Minaj who’s slightly mentioned about being a dominant woman above other women sexually. 

I get it colored folk, allota of our culture’s known for being very religious, either Islam or Christianity and neither really encourage interest in the other sex.  

Fact is these famous women were not butch (or any other label or society likes to define our lesbian/bi women with)-they were Ladies.

What is so taboo or wrong about Women of Color showing interest in other women.

Why do we shy from these topics, and we don’t why do they have to be so hardcore in your face RAWR I’m A LABEL DEFINED BY MY SEXUALITY RESPECT IT.

Balance anyone? 

I find that when I talk about my various interests it ranges and I don’t care to define myself, I like women, but I also like men. Not for attention, not to be in your face, not to give myself an excuse to jump into the LGBT fight for all, but it is what it is.

That’s what I liked about reading/watching these documentaries about these women, it’s the nonchalant, “Yeah we like women, we hooked up with women, so what.”  

I like that… 

Move Aside, Barbie, the Queens of Africa Dolls Are Here 

bout fuckin time though

Angelique Kidjo - Afirika

From the CD: Black Ivory Soul

"Open your eyes, ears and hearts and surrender to the sights and sounds of Africa."

Great song from a great African woman, set to the pictures of a great African civilization - The people of the Surma and Mursi tribes.

Tribal Decoration of the Omo Valley - Pictures by: Hans Silvester (Africa on Lens)

The people of the Surma and Mursi tribes live in the Omo Valley of Southern Ethiopia are body painters: they paint their bodies with pigments made from the earth as an immemorial and quotidian practice mothers paint babies, children and adults paint themselves and each other in a tradition that seems unchanged for thousands of years. Their paintings range from abstract designs of circles, lines, dots and swirls, sometimes focused on specific body parts, to all-over patterns of flowers, zig-zags and fingerprints that form a dazzling array on the entire body. White, yellow, orange and ochre; the natural pigments that they use are derived from the soil and rocks of their surroundings. The tribes daily paintings are an essential expression of their lives more elemental to them than music or dance. Fascinated by the Surma and Mursi tribes painting practices and astounded by the beauty of their ephemeral art.

Silvester captures the diverse and extraordinary effects that they achieve through their ancient tradition.

Angélique Kidjo - Batonga (1991) Official Music video

An excellent artist and a wonderful person. It’s incredible feeling to hear her voice first time in live concert, go and see when she is performing near you!
I hope owners of the rights want to see this as an honor to this artist, which it really is. 
You can see this very same video freely also elsewhere in the internet. 
My hope is that everyone can just listen to this wonderful musician. Enjoy!
And all of her albums are still rather easy to find!

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